Kids are getting into organized sports earlier these days, and it’s not unusual for them to start as young as age four. If your child is still an infant or toddler, it might seem like age four is a long way off. But as any experienced parent can tell you, it will be here before you know it.

When the day comes for you to sign your son or daughter up for a sport, you’ll need to remember that it’s up to you to be a role model for good sportsmanship for your child. Here are some tips about being a parent who’s a good sport.

Trying is more important than winning. If your child is trying hard, then it doesn’t matter if they win or lose. Encourage your child to strive to improve, but don’t put too much pressure on for the win.

Be a cheerleader for your child. Let your child know that you’re on their side and don’t criticize them after a sporting event. Leave the detailed critiques of their performance to the coach.

Don’t criticize other children. You really never know who’s sitting nearby when you criticize the performance of other children. Don’t let your child and others hear you putting down other kids.

Remember that organized sports for kids are about getting fit and having fun. Keep it light and let your child know you love them no matter what.